four seasons and a result of living body without a soul....

Most of us will ask whether winter come first of summer come first…no one will know the answer because the first person who watch this flow of the four seasons eventually not going to remember it…I bet during the formation of the seasons in the four seasons country, the first person who experience the four seasons never tends to remember it…they some sort like it is just something normal that they had to go through. Nothing much to be remember and it will be something that will be bring down towards the generations.
As for me…the four seasons are just like a love relationship. If you ask me which (summer or winter) comes first…I will said that the winter started first. In a relationship, it started with the coldness. Each individual have a very cold hearted for their feeling. No much love had been put into their heart. Nevertheless, they feel very empty but they do not know it by themselves. This is what we cal as the teenage stage. Thus, they tend to find something to fill in the emptiness. Then later we named it as puppy love. It is a kind of reaction where the teenage try to mature up the emptiness by filling it with the temporary love feeling…however, those love feeling shall never fill up the emptiness for most of the individuals. Thus, it is always end up with in a break up relationship. Although it is a puppy love but it is still the first love in an individual’s life and it is at the very bottom of the emptiness that needs to be filled. Thus, we so called the first love is the most unbearable love…it is the most unforgettable…well…normal…those at the bottom will always support those at the top no matter how big it was…
As time pass by, the spring is rolling in. In this season the mood turns up to be very temperate and lovely…the heat is moderate and caring. Just like in a love relationship. The now newly in love couples very tenderly to each other and loves each other in full force…that is spring… in spring the plants and flower started to bloom and spent their new life. Same thing happen to each individual of a couple. Each of them has a new aim and new plan for their life. It is a brand new life. As the season continues…the earth continues its spinning and move on, the temperature began to rise up. In a relationship, their temper is increasing for each other…their patient nevertheless fell increasing for each other as well…why? This is a very simple question to answer. When then temper of each other increases for each other in a relationship, the tolerance and the patient will as well needed to be doubled so that they can maintain the stability in the relationship, the tenderly heat and warmth slowly becoming lesser and lesser. For most of the couples, the tenderly heat such as the romances and the surprises getting worn out due to the increasing sunlight and heat.
Now the heat and the temperature had brings the couple into the summer. Now it is hot and timid. Sometimes it can be very warm that we can feel the aura from far….sometimes we cannot feel anything except the pain of our skin when the sun strikes. This is also very true in a relationship. In this period of a relationship, both individuals of a couple will sometimes feel the lovely feeling that each other pour in. However, most of the time they can feel the heat burning and frying up the body rather than the warmth they felt as what happened in the winter.
Then, the autumn comes making the view of the surrounding very sad. Most of the tree is losing their leaves. In a relationship, they had loss their sweet memories. They had forgotten how they come across each other. They had loss their temperament for each other. They loss their telepathic feel and sense for each other. It is just like a tree that loss its leaves day by day without any new leaves being produced. Soon the tree is just a naked trunk. In a relationship, both of the individuals stay together mostly by the bonding that had builds up throughout the winter, spring and summer. But it is lifeless, just like the naked tree trunk, living but without any sign of newborn leaves. Most of the green leaves that nourishes enough during the previous seasons had fallen down to the grave…everything seems to be cool and cold…
Now it comes back to winter again. Some of the couples are able to maintain their love for each other and they might find a new spring between themselves after all...however, most of them will need to find a need partner to meet the new spring. Whenever it reaches the winter, the emptiness feeling will be back. Due to the situation where you had have a love relationship before, the emptiness you feel in this winter is doubly worse…it is just like a living body without a soul.
This is how I describe the four season compare to a love relationship. It is very true that not every couple will go through these four seasons. Some of them really able to make it through and found a new spring between themselves but most of the cases, I think is not that lucky…if it is really that lucky then we won’t have so many divorce cases…
Hehe….my love life experience making and converting me into a living body without a soul now…..
For those who is on a date…appreciate each other and ensure the spring have a longer time for both of yu….good luck….