No matter when, where, what and how..we are abl to make a new friends. Moreoer, with the modern technologies such as messengers, emails, facebook and so on. We might befriended to another individual by just click on the mouse or pressing the keypad on the computer.
It is getting easier and easier to know and meet up with other people. There are multiple ways to hook up with other fellow as well. This have not count as well the ways to meet people in daily life, manually...However, there are only two ways to say goodbye to our so call friend.
A friendship, doesn't matter how much effort had used to build up will be broken easily when the timing is correct. There is only two ways to end it. One of it is by ending with a fight or end with a peaceful line. Usually or mostly of the friendship will end up with a fight.
This usually happen in my life. It is just like a process which i must face yearly. Maybe it is because towards the end of the year. I started to look back on my life this year. There are too many things happened and most of it is not controlled by myself.
There are people which is very selfish in a relationship, like i do. They do not really want any interference in the relationship going on in his / her life. She or he will always want everything planned as his / her ways. Usually this kind of people (more or less like me) will end up most of his or her relationship with a fight.
There is nothing i can do. I bet anyone in this world need to bare in their mind that things will change. Nothing in this world will remain static. If really things in this world remain static, then the sun and the moon we see will give us the same brightness. There are as well people requested for a static relationship. A static relationship is very stable but nothing is contained in it. Thus, this kind of relationship will end up with a fight.
There is another situation where friendship end up peacefully. A forced relationship. This usually occur among classmate and housemate or roommate. no matter how fierce is the fight, bot parties will remain silent until the benefits for both parties had reach the limit and hey will left each other without any word. This kind of ending will end peacefully but actually it is not suppose to end...because it never started at all. It is just a illusion of a starting. Funny but i feel it is so true in my life now.
This year, two of my friendship broke. One brke up with a fight another broke up silently or peacefully...in other word...it just seems like the friendship never started before..
so...i bet next year...none of this will ever happen again because i will stop finding friends because i know my only true friends is just a few and he best friend i had so far is still myself...most of the friendship i have is just giving me laughter and joy but not true hapiness....
Friends...firends....friends...(it is the frys that ends up....)
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sometime it's good to look back... to rate and value our ownself..... true capricornian... selfish in friendship and never satisfied....
Knowing others make us know the our world and our life better.. It is friends who function to guide us for better living spiritually and physically and if we do find friends that never learn anything from them, then, it is us who function to guide them for better living. We are created to complement each other, if a friend is lack one this part, u help me to improve it, same goes to the us a s friend, if she or he lack at another part, then will help them improve..
nothing was created without its "hikmah (perkara baik disebaliknya), so do friends.
Knowing others make us know our world and our life better.. It is friends who function to guide us for better living spiritually and physically and if we do find friends that we never learn anything from them, then, it is us who function to guide them for better living. We are created to complement each other, if a friend is lack at this part, u help me to improve it, same goes to us as a friend, if she or he lack at another part, then we will help them improve..
nothing was created without its "hikmah (perkara baik disebaliknya), so do friends.
knowing others not necessary will make our life better.... depends on who r the person we met and how we handle the friendship......it is heart rending to break a friendship but if that is the case that we have to choose...look back to yourself...n dont do the same mistake again....
it is good to find friends...long long time ago...in China, there are many friends that ends up to be siblings...(abg dan adek angkat)...their relationship is really the best of the best. they can be a better sibling rather than their own sibling(blood realtionship sibling). However, nowadays we dun really find friend in this form. Most of the people in this days tends to find friends that gives benefits to each other....nur ariff...i scare that the issue you state that we complete the other friends might not necessary that true nowadays...i have tried to complement with my friends...but it usually end up that they said i take advantages from them or i will feel they had used me up for some certain of thing....
If you really love your friend and they love you as well, there shouldn't be any feeling of "using" or taking advantage. As I said u have to be reflective. look back. everybody makes mistake and we should improve our self. To have true friend and a long lasting friendship, a lot of sacrifice have to be made. Dont just ignore a person when feel bored about he/she or when u found a new friend, because, remember, may be one day u might need his/her help in your life, which you can't get from others. just a penny tots from me, an ordinary person......
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