Monday, December 21, 2009

How Many Children Should I have???

During dinner just now, me and a few of my pals were discussing how many children shall we have in the future...Some of them said that they just want one girl,some said she does not want any boys...and a few others said they want as many as possible...

As for me, when i think about this, i felt it is very funny...I do not deny that the modern technology will allow us to determine whether we can have a baby boy or a baby girl...However, it is not still not really accepted by all of the religion in this world. This is because having a baby is actually a girt from the God, no one can actually determine how many children shall we have or either the baby should be male or female. Everything is being set by the God and we just need to carry out our responsibility...

I think of my neighbour suddenly, she has 8 daughther and 1 son. This actually is due to her aim to have a baby boy. After giving birth to eight daughter, then only she gave birth to a baby boy. Was this what the God set up for her or did she the one determine it??? I am not sure about it...

However, as for those who read this blog, the message i wanna convey is that giving birth is a natural process...let the natural process go on the natural pathway...never be the determiner as long as you are still the creation of God...

(chewah...macam pendeta lar pulak...haha....)

3 comments:

harmless said...

tuhan tidak akan mengubah nasib seseorang itu sehinggalah dia sendiri berusaha untuk mengubahnya......

nur ariff said...

Stanley..
Choice in us, with da choice, came a determination, with some effort then pray to God.

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